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Transformational Selling with Simon Lovell

Sales Mastery Coaching with Simon Lovell, Keynotes


6 Top Tips for Transformational Selling

Top tips from my personal one to one training/coaching with Simon Lovell. These keynotes are focused on tips for coaches and consultants who are face to face (e.g. in person or over the telephone) with their client. For online sales, many of these notes are still relevant. It is very important for your transformational selling that you find a way to take your customer from an online lead to an in-person conversation. For notes on how to increase marketing conversion please see my notes on This is Marketing here.

By following this 6 Top Tips guide you’re going to learn how to sell more, transform more lives and work with ideal clients. You’ll have more freedom, more cash flow, more committed clients, more confidence and less stress. Why listen to Simon? He’s sold over $3million+ in personal coaching. He’s worked with the best coaches in the mindset & business space, spending time on Richard Branson’s Necker Island and working 1–1 with Tony Robbins in India amongst so much more. He’s a published author and spoken on many stages.

To find out more about Simon Lovell please visit www.simonlovell.com and tell him Louise sent you.




Tip #1 — Your mindset is critical to sales

“How you manage yourself is how you manage your income” Simon Lovell

  • Sales mastery is about managing your emotions

  • Your goal is to get to a level of emotional mastery with sales

  • Your mindset creates your belief systems which create your identity which inform how you show up with clients

  • Your new mindset is what is going to get you to the next level

  • Most selling is non-verbal. Your energy matters

  • Challenges with confidence may cause you to lose your focus

  • Bring awareness to your emotional patterns pre-conversation, during and post to identify what your emotional patterns pre, during and post conversation need to be

  • At the same time, it’s important to bring awareness to your negative & positive associations with sales and beliefs around selling

  • Be aware of where you may be projecting your own beliefs on to a client (e.g. your financial beliefs)

  • Ask yourself, “Do you believe that what you’re selling is worth £X.” If the answer is no then you can ask, “What specifically needs to happen to believe that it is?”

  • Know that your confidence and certainty is what your client is buying. If you have a strong belief you can help your client they will believe it too


Exercise:

  • Write down your current beliefs around selling now in your business

  • Write down what your beliefs around selling need to be to get you to the next level



Tip #2 — To make sales you need to have conversations

Pre-conversation

  • We forget that the work we do to get us into the right headspace & energy pre-conversation is just as important as the conversation itself

  • The more you prepare before the conversation the more clients you enrol

  • Pre-conversation strategies allow you to calm yourself and centre before the conversation takes place to create more room for focus and presence with your client

  • Meditation slows you down to a more positive thought, helps with centring and to shift negative thoughts helping you connect with your heart and cleaning your energy for active listening

  • Bring awareness to what outcome would feel good for you — write down your target

  • Get into an emotional mastery mental state

  • Rewatch or re-read client testimonials to connect back to your ability/value to deliver change

  • Take time to think about what you’re grateful for in your business/life

  • Get into the feeling like you’ve already enrolled the client and they are already a client

  • Use the Tony Robbins tool of State Management to create your own Sales State Management


Sales State Mastery

Physiology (how you’re holding your body — spine position) + Language (what are you telling yourself)+ Focus = how you feel in sales (See Tony Robbins, Discover your Peak State)


Conversation

  • To make sales you need to have conversations

  • You’re selling confidence / a new state



Building rapport

  • Pre-frame the conversation to set out what the client can expect / how the conversation will go

  • Find common ground and connection — tell stories and be open about your experiences and journey. When you are open this gives your client permission to be just as open

  • Be genuine and take an interest — Spend time active listening and building rapport. Really listen to what your client wants and needs not from the point of understanding what you can sell to them but from a place of real care and support


Island of Sad & Island of Happy

  • It’s equally important to understand and ask what your client wants to move away from (Island of Sad) as well as what they want to move towards (Island of Happy)

  • Make a note of the Island of Sad and Island of Happy emotions for being better able to make a prescription/offer that fits the client’s needs

  • Ask quality questions that allow your client to speak openly and truthfully about where they are really

  • You must find out why the client has failed before — why they are where they are and what are their excuses

Question: “If we were sat here having this conversation X weeks from now and we were looking back over the X weeks what needed to happen for you to be happy with the results?”


Making an offer

“Your client is craving for you to take control of their change and to care enough to get them there — allowing excuses & letting them off the hook doesn’t show you care enough. Your clients need certainty from you”

  • Only offer further support if you feel confident you can help the client and there’s an alignment

  • Don’t predict in your mind that your clients don’t want to work with you because they’ve not approached you. Consider they may be thinking you don’t want to work with them because you haven’t made the offer

  • Feel confident with what you’re selling/prescribing. You have to feel confident in making the offer and that it’s valuable to the client. We sabotage sales when we don’t feel it’s worth it

  • Do not present an offer or talk about a price unless there’s good energy there. Use the Boiling Kettle analogy — “If it’s not boiling, don’t present it”

  • Always ask permission from the client before an offer is made. “Are you happy for me to share with you how I can support you to work with you on X?”

Question: “Would you like me to talk about how I can help you?”

  • When offering further support talk about the value of the support and focus primarily on the outcome you can deliver (getting the client from A to B — Island of Sad to Island of Happy)

  • For your client’s benefit (transformation) it’s important to offer this support when the client is in a peak state, the point where there are fewer limitations, fears and caution where change is ready to occur

  • Offer a prescription/course/package that offers a solution and outline the commitment required. Offer what the client needs not what they think they need

  • Consider offering a “Fast-Action” discount

Ask, “How committed are you?” Ask, “Does this sound like something you would be excited by?” Ask, “Would you like me to tell you about the investment?” “An investment needs to be uncomfortable but not dangerous for real client transformation”

  • After you’ve shared the investment price don’t say anything more. Give your client time to think & process to respond

  • Take payment immediately there and then or offer a non-refundable deposit option (helping your client to commit to their change)

  • A challenge with money only comes up when clients don’t see the value in what you’re offering

  • For the benefit of the client's transformation and the sale it’s important to ask, “Do you want to go ahead?” and give the client an opportunity to give their empowered yes or no

  • If the client asks for more time to decide then ask for a timeframe and then ask why not earlier. This is all training for helping the client step into their change and commitment to their change. It builds trust that you can be that person to keep the accountability

  • When the client signs up, make it a habit to ask them 3 reasons why they invested and keep a record of this to help you find commonalities and to do more of what works


Post conversation — It’s a no

  • Sales slumps (when there’s a no) are very real. Remember when you lose your confidence you lose your certainty

  • Love objections because these help you create even deeper intimacy and connection with your client. Ask questions to keep the conversation going

  • Make a record of the objections your client made so that you can review and refine

  • If this was an opportunity where you felt like you could really help and you wanted to help you can ask, “What could I have done better?”

  • Revisit how you were feeling pre-conversation as a self-check-in — the key to sales mastery is to become more aware of your patterns and triggers

  • Use the LAER model — Listen, acknowledge, explore & respond

  • The biggest reason objections come up is because the client isn’t as connected with you — you’ve not made the client feel confident enough that they won’t fail

  • Do not blame the client for a no because that does not allow you to look at yourself and building your sales confidence

  • The more you work on client objections and closing the more confident you’ll become and the more lives you’ll change


Top 3 objections and follow-up questions:

“I can’t afford it”

You: “What do you mean by that?” / “Would you like me to explore ways that we can make this possible for you?”/ “What is the number you would like to invest to make X happen?”

“I need to think about it”

You: “What do you need to think about specifically?” / “I understand that making a decision is sometimes hard, can I ask is there something you’re not clear about or you’re fearful of?” / “If you knew 100% that you would reach your goal would you just think about it or would you just do it?” / “On a scale of 1–10 with 10 being ready and 1 being a no, where do you sit on this right now? What would take you to a higher number?”

“I need to talk to my X”

You: “What do you think the conversation will be about? The price or the program?” / “What do you think the conversation will go like?” / “What if they say no?” / Ascertain, are they speaking to X for permission or to ask for support. *Empower someone to make the decision for themselves

I will not quit on you close — conviction & confidence

You: “I need to apologise to you for not being able to get you to a solution today, can I ask you whether it was something I did or something I failed to do?” Them: “No, no, nothing at all, you were great You: “In that case, is there something I could do to make this work for you instead of you taking more time or going to have to go through this process with someone that isn’t as passionate about having you reach your goals and know what they are doing?



Tip #3 — Understand your true value

  • It’s important for you to understand what you’re great at, the true impact of what you do and to connect to it

  • Your impact is not your time, it’s the transformational outcome you’re offering

  • Make a list of what you enjoy most about working with the clients you love as an ideal client check-list

  • Only work with clients you love — even if you are short on leads DO NOT take on clients that are not a fit for you — every second spent working with clients that cause stress takes you away from working with clients you love

  • Be an example, teach what you’ve done

Exercise: Write down at least 10 outcomes that your clients get after working with you



Tip #4 — Your client wants to invest in an outcome

  • Understanding your true value will allow you to offer “outcomes” with confidence to your clients. Very important as your client is investing in their commitment to the outcome

  • Your clients are paying you to uphold them to the new standard they want for themselves



Tip #5 — Not challenging your client keeps them exactly where they are

  • You’re not caring for your client if you’re not challenging them to step out of their old story and into their new story or creating opportunities for them to commit to their new story — you’re enabling them to stay where they are. If you don’t do this then your client is not going to respect & trust you’re the right person to help them change

  • Don’t be afraid to call your client out on excuses or other. It’s important to do so from a caring and loving space



Tip #6 — Understand what drives buying decision

  • Most clients rarely buy on price alone

  • Clients buy because of the way it makes them feel

  • Questions clients may ask themselves, “Will I succeed this time?”, “Will it make me happier?”, “Will it make me look good to others?”, “Will I be supported & cared for?”

  • If the client is not confident that you can deliver they will say their decision is about money. They will use money as an excuse



Thank you for reading


Louise x


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